Signs you're being married to for Green Card

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By Rahul Gladwin | August, 2012.

Are you a US Citizen (American) getting married to a foreigner? Is the illegal alien or foreigner you're dating being pushy and impatient about marriage?

People with Green Card fraud in their mind will tend to be world-class liars; so here are some tell-tale signs you need to watch out for; signs that your partner is using you to get a "Green Card" - a document which allows illegals and foreigners legal indefinite stay in the United States.

WARNING: be especially wary of illegal aliens or foreigners you meet through online dating websites, especially websites like and

1. Love at First Sight:

The illegal alien or foreigner will claim to have fallen in love with you at first sight on first date. He or she will flatter you with sweet talk and say you are the most amazing and wonderful person they met in their entire life. Additionally, the illegal alien or foreigner may try to get sexual too early.

American Men Beware: DO NOT impregnate an illegal or foreigner girl before marriage! She'll use the baby to not only get the Green Card, but receive alimony for the next eighteen years.

2. Pressurized into Marriage:

The illegal alien or foreigner will pressurize you into marriage and would even have picked out a wedding date. Furthermore, he/she will be very offended and angry if you say things like you not being ready for marriage, etc. The illegal alien or foreigner may even claim he or she is being pressurized into marriage by their family.

3. His or her family doesn't approve or know about your marriage:

A "Green Card" marriage should preferably remain a secret process for the illegal alien or foreigner, and he/she will come up with excuses about not being able to tell anyone about the marriage. For example, he or she may not introduce you to his or her family and friends, or even lie about their family not approving for their marriage. To make the situation more dramatic, the illegal alien or foreigner may even claim to have been "disowned" by their family and/or claim to have been mistreated by their family overseas. In other words, they'll try everything to gain your sympathy and trust.

4. Financial favors:

The illegal alien or foreigner will ask for financial help, e.g., moving into your house a few months before marriage, a new laptop, car, cell-phone, getting you to buy stuff for them, or cash.

5. Real motive behind:

The real motive behind "Green Card" marriages is, well, a green card. However, the illegal alien or foreigner will never reveal their motive in the beginning of the relationship. As you date them and get to know them better, they'll suddenly claim they need legal papers in order to exit the country and visit their family overseas (uh, a relative "died?"), or they need legal papers to apply for a new job. This real motive is usually revealed later during the relationship and is claimed as an unexpected emergency.


If your illegal alien or foreigner boyfriend or girlfriend is displaying any of the above behaviors, you need to call off the relationship immediately! Search the Internet blogs and forums on how Americans have gotten married to the wrong people only to have ended up bankrupt and in divorce courts. Americans are very nave people and are easily duped by foreigners.

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